A Safe Space for Readers and Loved Ones
It’s all too easy to over-share online (and in person!) where it’s more hurtful than helpful. I’m committed to creating a safe place for readers and loved ones.
The ability to connect with others through social media can be a great benefit to us personally.
Sometimes, though, these platforms are used for sharing in ways that are more hurtful than helpful. It’s all too easy to use them to mock and attack others rather than seek peace.
And… what goes on the Internet stays on the Internet.
My Commitment to Readers and Those I Love
Since restarting this blog, I’ve pondered this. So, I decided to declare my commitments to my approach to this blog:
I pray to God that Coffee Chats and Yoga Mats is a safe, encouraging place for myself and others.
I pray that I use social media, email and other online platforms as a tool for good, not abuse.
I’m committed to not using this blog and other spaces as a place to speak ill of others – regardless of how close my relationship is or isn’t with them.
I’m committed to not sharing stories or images that embarrass or mock my loved ones. If there’s even a hint of mockery, I need to either rewrite it or delete it. My ego is not worth hurting a relationship.
I’d rather err on over-praising my loved ones here than highlighting their flaws. We all have things to deal with. It’s not my responsibility to do it on someone else’s behalf (like ever!), even more so on a public platform.
Wrap-Up
Should social media just be highlight reels of all the perfect things in our lives? Heck no!
Yet, we can talk about the hard things and still honor others along the way.
And… let’s be honest, I don’t want readers like you to dread getting messages from me because of the sheer ickiness.
(Obviously, you should unsubscribe if you felt that way. Don’t accept something as normal if it’s not actually healthy.)
So, do you have your own stance for how you’ll use online media? If so, I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Be brave. Be bold. I’m cheering for you!
You can live intentionally with passion and purpose as God’s beloved.
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I’m Cortney, a recovering over-achiever and God’s beloved who loves helping fellow Christian women like you embrace your God-given gifts so you have the confidence to live authentically.
I’m also a full-time mama to two sweet little boys, wife to my best friend, motivational speaker, and part-time Christian life coach. Chai lattes, strong coffee, podcasts, yoga, dance, and fairy tales nourish my soul and add sweetness to life.
Discovering the joy of embracing my God-given gifts and who He created me to be was a game-changer—a journey that brought freedom, unexpected delights, and relief from guilt. Finally, I felt free to be myself and ditch the pressure of being someone I wasn’t.
Incorporating those gifts into my day—from weekly planning to deciding on commitments, nurturing my marriage, and parenting—transformed everything. Now, I can’t imagine life without the perspective of fully embracing who God created me to be. I was missing so much without it!
